Archives from 2004

Any regrets about 2004? -- One Concerned Dude Regrets? I've had a few. I mean, I must have had a few, right? But thanks to short- and long-term memory loss -- I drove a nail into my own head in fo

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I'm a woman in an LTR. Recently I had a discussion about anal sex with my guy. Knowing that I was a little nervous, he was GGG and let me experiment on him first. Well, it worked out great, and we b

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My girlfriend and I have been together for two years, and while it's the best relationship I've ever been in, we're not sexually compatible. Her ideal amount of sex would be twice a month. For me th

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Gentle Readers: If there's ever been any doubt about how seriously I take my responsibilities, this column should lay 'em to rest. Not only am I sharing my advice-giving duties with a co-advisor th

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Dear Readers: A few weeks back I printed a letter from Mutilated and Comeless (MAC), a 24-year-old who lost the head of his penis (the glans) in a botched circumcision as an infant. MAC hasn't had a

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I'm a female university student who has a question of etiquette. There's a girl I've seen around campus who I recognize from a few years ago ... when "Jane" was a guy. I'm positive that it's the sam

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When did your sex advice column become a political column? That's not why I read your column. Please get back to what you do best: fetish sex advice. Get back to peggers and piss drinkers. If I find

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I'm sunk into a depression over the election results. I started out Anyone But Bush but actually came to like John Kerry, which makes his defeat even harder. I feel like I'm looking at four years of

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After much trial and error, it's become abundantly clear to me that I'm a lesbian. My problem is that I'm having a lot of trouble meeting women. I tried dating a friend of mine, but that turned out

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I have a serious problem. I'm pregnant with a boy. At first my husband and I were in agreement that we wouldn't circumcise him. I have read that the foreskin is comparable to a clit -- all the nerve

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I'm an 18-year-old student. I have trust issues. I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months now, and he's very supportive. I'm not a jealous person or a controlling head case because I have no prob

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I'm a 35-year-old straight male, and my sex drive is all but dead. I find sex tedious and repulsive. The odors of sex disgust me; I find the grunts and positions absurd. Lately, whenever I meet a wo

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I'm a Middle Eastern guy who lived 21 years of my life in that region. This year I came to Canada. The sexual freedom in this country makes you feel more and more inclined to have sex with a girlfri

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Dear Readers: The resident word freak at public radio's The Next Big Thing -- the lovely and talented Erin McKean -- regularly challenges writers to use words that might otherwise disappear into obs

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I broke up with a long-term girlfriend about two years ago. Last week, while totally drunk, I thought that it would be a great idea to see whether I could still log into her e-mail account, since we

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PLEASE HELP ME. My husband gets off on the voyeur thing. It started out with him watching me and masturbating while I was unaware of his presence. Soon I was wearing daisy dukes at the door (about t

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I'm not sure what to do. I've had a fetish for straitjackets since I was 15 years old. I'm now 35. I've told only two girlfriends about it and absolutely no one else. The last one went along with it

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Dear Readers: Last week we were treated to the childhood sexual misconceptions of my male readers -- a shocking number of which involved piss. This week it's the girls' turn.... My grandma on my da

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A few weeks back, Laughing at Myself Now suggested that I ask my readers to send in letters detailing their childhood misconceptions about sex. It sounded like a good way to lighten my workload, all

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I'm a 26-year-old gay guy with a strange fetish. Mine feels like it's the strangest one out there because I've never read anything about it anywhere. Consequently, I've always felt the embarrassed a

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